When Fixing it is Not the Answer

How to support the people you love

don't fix it

It’s hard to believe we have lived in New Mexico for almost five years, and that my second child is graduating from High School in four weeks.  When we first moved here it was hard for my kids to adjust.  I remember vividly many days of sorrow, and each of them having their “moments.”  As […]

Ever wonder how to help a friend in need?

Video interview: 5 guidelines you should follow

A few weeks ago, I had the honor of doing a video interview with my good friend Keith Ferrin who has an amazing ministry called “That You May Know.”   Our conversation was fun and practical; highlighting 5 guidelines you should follow when you’re walking alongside a friend with cancer, illness, loss or hardship of any […]

Helping a friend in need… it’s not about you.

If you’re like me, you’ve heard the horror stories about people who face serious life-altering situations—like cancer, long-term illness, loss of a child, death of a loved one—and someone made their hardship worse by saying or doing the wrong thing.  It almost seems it’s the exception instead of the rule.  So why when we want […]